Wednesday, June 24, 2009

This was a post that I did not publish...why, I dunno know...there are several. So, I am going through the list of "draft" posts and will be publishing them...then I will get back on track!

Eleven years...thin, some would even say skinny. You see, 11 years ago, I had what is called a Vertical Banded Gastroplasty. It was, and still is, the best thing I could have ever done for myself...but with risks, which I will refer to my personal risks after the outline.

  • The short and long-term risks of vertical banded gastroplasty include:
    Incisional hernia.
    Dehiscence.
  • Nausea and vomiting.
  • Formation of a stricture at the site of the plastic band.
  • Damage to the spleen. Due to the close proximity of the stomach.
  • Regaining weight. A 10-year follow-up study of 70 patients who had had a VBG found that only 20% (14) of the patients had lost and kept off the loss of 50% of their excess body weight.
  • Ongoing vomiting and heartburn. About 20% of patients with VBGs report long-term digestive difficulties.
    Psychological problems. Some people have difficulty adjusting to the changes in their outward appearance and to others' changed reactions to them.

Now, that being said...
On December 29, 2008 I had to have surgery to fix the band eroding through my stomach and esophagus. There were a whole mess of complications going into the surgery and few more thanks to the doc cutting my spleen. Since the repair, I CAN EAT everything without getting sick. I have gained weight, which terrifies me but most importantly, I feel so much better. I am having problems with extremely low energy, from the spleen complications. This is a big issue! And the Rheumatoid and Fibro does not help, as it is a very common complaint among RA and Fibro patients.
Today is one of those days. This last weekend was fast, fun and furious but boy am I paying for it today.

So, do I recommend a lap band type of surgery for morbid obese patients? Yes, I sure do!

Have a beautiful day and a better tomorrow!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

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Facebook Home: "Today, I will try to find happiness and joy. I must admit, through tears already, that it will be hard. Only a mama who birthed a child and felt the soul leave the childs body, could understand the incredible blank pain that is felt.
I know through faith that I will be with Raymond again! For that, and only that thought, will help me get through the 5th year of physical absence of my only child.
The Life and"

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God Bless You!

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Name Change

Yesterday, my dad called me Little Miss Muffet. It took me home, to a time in childhood, when life was simple and uncomplicated.

It felt good.

My dearest friends called (and still do) me Weenie. For years, I had a license plate that had the letters "WeKnee".
I used to watch people in the rear view mirror...trying to sound it out...then show a snicker, or all out laugh.

Life was simple then too!

So, today I decided to change the name of my blog! It will bring new life and laughter to the blog. Anyone want to post some good jokes???

Have a beautiful Saturday....
Arlene
aka Little Miss Muffet or Weenie ;)

Poem I wrote, while my marriage crumbled

You said you wanted me more than anything in life

Even asked me to be your wife

The day so beautiful, happy and more
Then the love went down to the floor

The wall came up

I tried to climb up and in

But I could not do it again and again
Which way should I turn

Which way should I go

The answer to this, I don’t even know
I wanted your love

Even begged and pleaded

But I was not what you needed
The smile you once said was bright

Has turned into the gray of the night

Into the darkness I had turned

Even thou, for you I still yearned
I could not compete with what’s in your head, the computer, or even our bed!

Some times it made me feel so dreadful and dead!
I vowed to love you with all of my might

But into the night and out of sight, you choose what you wanted for your delight
Please open your heart and let the wall free

See that someone loved you...that someone was me